The First 90 Days of Marriage
Building the Foundations of a lifetime
Chapter One
How to have
the perfect marriage
“Great marriages aren’t stumbled upon,
they are fought for.”
I woke up this morning, like I do every morning, with the desire to have the greatest marriage in the history of the world. Aiming to have the perfect marriage is my mission, it’s my quest; it’s my Mt Everest. And yes, I’m fully aware of how great a masterpiece I am attempting to paint.
Where others aim to become the world’s fastest human or the next American Idol, my ambition is a bit misunderstood by the mainstream mentality. I know great marriage doesn’t come cheap – I know how much such a lofty ambition will cost me. It will take my pride and flush it down the toilet; it will tax every millimeter of my soul and ruthlessly expose my every selfish tendency; it will renovate my entire existence.
And I say, “bring it on!”
Great marriage is like an Olympic event. To compete at